This
is my eighth year as a parent at our school. On joining the school I
was concerned about the traffic as we walked to school. The problem of
parents breaking the road rules whilst driving around and parking at
school has been a long standing problem, even as the school population
changes.
Over
the years the P&C has discussed many possible strategies to address
the problem. We have tried recording the number plates of offending
vehicles and sending this information to the local police. With local
council we have discussed the possibility of installing traffic calming
devices. We have attempted to make the children's crossing at the front
of the school a permanent crossing, and asked that the signs be clearer,
to no avail. Traffic Officers regularly issue fines to people around
the school. Still parents park on the crossings at the front and side of
the school, do U turns on the crossings, and double park by the gates
at the back of the school.
After
two years of discussion with local council we have a new pick up/drop
off zone at the back of the school. It is near the corner so you can
pick up or drop off your children at the gates on either street from
this location. You can park there for five minutes during 8.30 -9.30 am
and 2.30 - 3.30 pm, and if you get out of the car, you need to stay
near the vehicle. The same rules apply at the drop off/pick up zone at
the front of the school. Many people park for longer than this time, and
leave the vehicle to enter to the school. The point of these zones is to keep traffic moving in a safe way. If people aren't using them correctly, then more people park illegally.
The
School Executive and P&C have tried to educate parents about road
safety around the school. We have explained what the road signs mean. We
have explained the fines for breaking the road rules. We have explained
the reasons for the rules, for example, that by parking on the crossing
you are blocking the visibility of other drivers so they can’t see the
pedestrians. We encourage families to walk, ride a bike or scooter to
school. We encourage people to organise a Walking Bus. We’ve asked that
parents follow the rules in order to set a good example for their
children. We’ve asked that parents follow the rules so they aren’t seen
by the school community as people who are comfortable with breaking the
rules.
We
generally walk to school. From Year 5 onwards, my children have wanted
to walk to school on their own. From Year 6 onwards my children are
allowed to visit their friends in the local area. On starting high
school they are confident travelling to and from school on their own.
The dangerous part of walking to school is crossing the road directly
outside the school because we know that parents break the rules there.
But we have survived, because in walking to school on a daily basis my
children have learnt road safety skills. They know to catch the driver’s
eye before they cross. I hadn’t realised it, but in walking to school
on a regular basis, and walking around our neighbourhood, I was teaching
my children to become independent and comfortable within their
community. Some of their friends who are driven to school every day are
not allowed to walk alone to visit their friends, or ride their bike
around the neighbourhood with friends, because they haven’t learnt the
skills of being out and about in the neighbourhood. Granted, we don’t
walk to school every time. Many days I go to school multiple times, but
at 9am and 3pm, we try to walk.
Many
mornings and afternoons I have spoken to people who have parked
illegally, pointing out the dangers of them doing so. Many mornings
while walking to school I have called out to people ‘it’s a crossing!’
I
wonder what motivates some people to continually break the rules when
it is so dangerous for other people. Do they not know, or do they not
care? Their own convenience seems to overrule the safety of others. I’d
like to ask why people persist in breaking the road rules around the
school, but I suspect the reason is that they are running late. They
want their children to be safe, but aren’t thinking about other people’s
children. For some reason they feel the need to drop their children at
the school gate, even though there is no parking by the school gates.
The school gates are for pedestrians, not cars. All I can do is ask that
they stop. Stop breaking the road rules around the school. If you must
drive to school, please leave early enough so that you can park legally.
Or park legally and get out of your car and get a late note.
And,
when I see people breaking the rules around the school, I wonder what
other rules they are breaking. Are they cheating on their taxes? Do they
drink and drive? I note them as people I no longer trust. In ethics
class we have been talking about how challenges define your character,
and how we are known by our behaviour. Sadly, many parents fail this
test.
If
every family living within a few blocks of the school walked to school
there would be far less traffic around the school. It would improve
fitness. It means you would have to be organised enough to leave a few
minutes earlier. It means your children would learn road safety skills,
and become comfortable with more independence as they grow up in the
community. And, if more people used the children’s crossing, it could be
made a permanent crossing, and be safer for everyone. I know that lots
of parents drive on to work after dropping off their children, or on to
after school activities after picking them up, but there are many people
who could walk to school, at least sometimes, and never do.
I
do have other ideas. Perhaps we could paint outlines of children on the
road. Or arrange tax audits for people who break the road rules. Or ask
that the road bordering the three sides of the school become a No
Stopping zone, because it is obvious that parents are constantly abusing
the privilege of parking near the school. Or we could employ bouncers to man the gates, only admitting people who arrive at school following the rules. Of course, these won't happen, and it isn't up to me to solve the problem. Most days I wonder what it
would take for people to obey the road rules. I know some schools do
name and shame, but I suspect this would just provoke confrontations
with the Principal, who has already been sworn at for asking parents to
park safely. Sadly, I suspect that only the serious injury of a student
will make people reconsider their behaviour.
While
a team of health professionals are trying to keep me alive, I’ll be
counting on the school community to keep my children alive. And if my team fails, I ask that, for two weeks of school term, in my honour, the sign at
the front of the school read: ‘It’s a Crossing!' I'm telling you now, if my child is killed while I'm in hospital, I'll be very angry.
If you have an ideas to help solve the problem, I'd like to hear them.
If you have an ideas to help solve the problem, I'd like to hear them.
2 comments:
Can you submit this blog post to SMH opinion page Catherine? It's a universal problem & addresses the big picture of the 'me' rather than 'we' culture we now live in. I don't know the answer either. The psychology baffles me. It would be good to get it talked about in the media again.
I know SMH is ambitious but on this topic you never know...or maybe try for Hoopla again!
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